"Life will present you with people and circumstances to reveal where you are not free."
"Let's face it. Life can be challenging. But I would assert whatever the challenge is, is the gold, is the opportunity. Because it's life creating a bit of friction to polish you.
Life is saying, Hey! See, you're still looking through a lens of inadequacy...judgment...insecurity. And that's okay, but it's a lie. There's nothing wrong with you.
And so just be patient, be trusting, be loving, be accepting, and understand that we are beneficiaries of life, not victims of it."
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