conflict with someone and I notice that my emotions are disturbed, I try to leave the situation and communicate even visualize myself doing this, then chances are my emotions are still too disturbed, so I shouldn’t communicate

To give a simple example, the western world heavily emphasizes communication. Communication is a method, not an attitude or intention. If we communicate with the intention to defeat others in an argument, then our bad intentions will taint our communication skills, and our strong communication skills would just create more conflict.  If we have good intentions but lack communication skills, then at least the results won't be harmful,

That means we need to patiently communicate with our parents about this decision and not rush to make But since this is a very big decision, you should try to patiently and sincerely communicate with your If you listen to them just because 'a good child is supposed to listen to parents', but you didn't communicate Of course, before you communicate with them, it's important that you meditate on your intentions first For example, if your parents' opinion right now is for you to stay in the marriage, but you haven't communicated

But we have to make a judgment call about whether or not it is worth the effort to do this communication , and we should communicate in a calm and humble manner, not in a defensive manner. If the other person is rather important, then it is probably worth the effort to do this communication who is wise and caring, then their opinions are worth considering, and we should spend the time to communicate

As leaders, we need to make sure our rules are fair and communicate the good intentions behind them. Is it because the leaders didn't communicate with them? Or is it because they didn't pay attention to the communications? Or is it because the communication only happened recently, and people haven't had time to adjust to the We also need to communicate with them to understand why they would choose to break the rule.

When he found the Buddha's community, he asked to become a monk and learn from the Buddha. In the Buddha's community, when new monks enter, they have to go through a ritual where they bow down

something like, "Oh you guys really care about each other's opinions so that's why you would try so hard to communicate Communication is not easy, and taking a break is helpful."  

If you still want to communicate later, then wait for a suitable time.”  

If standards weren't communicated and agreed upon, then it's not really fair to judge others using those Image Source Perhaps we remained silent when we should have communicated, so they think their behavior Or perhaps we communicated in a way that upset them or that they didn't understand. Then we can communicate with them in a humbler way because we realize we have problems too.

manners, and it might make others not want to listen to us, which would ruin the effectiveness of our communication All of this requires us to remain calm and considerate, which are key to effective thinking and communication

Also, it's best if both people communicate beforehand that we should take a break if either person starts But if you didn't communicate beforehand, there is another solution, which is to say, "I really need

Sorry I didn't communicate clearly before. Your cooking is very delicious though!"